On acceptance
This is something I heard yesterday at exactly the right time:
When I stopped living in the problem and began living in the answer, the problem went away…
And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation–some fact of my life –unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment…Until I could accept my alcoholism, I could not stay sober; unless I accept life completely on life’s terms, I cannot be happy. I need to concentrate not so much on what needs to be changed in the world as on what needs to be changed in me and in my attitudes.
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I recite that paragraph every morning. Or, to be completely honest, most mornings.
Here’s a website you may find useful. http://www.addicted.com is a site for friends, families, and those who suffer from various addictions.