Post-communism and post-broadcast
Live it, learn it, love it:
Individuals often have more control over the online environment than off-line. Paradoxically, many commentators bemoan the fact that people online are self-obsessed, they talk about the echo chamber. At the same time, they also complain about the lack of awareness, sophistication and professionalism of online interactions. Both may be (and are) true but this points to something else that is going on - people are learning something. They are learning self-determination and unlearning decades of one-way communication and mass broadcasting. The ability to express and respond to things on their own terms and their own way is what this is about.
Emphasis mine, not Adriana’s. I remember when she first told me about how, after the revolution and overturning of communism in the place where she was born and raised, so many people struggled with basic day-to-day tasks that people in the western world take for granted. Things like getting the phone service hooked up in a new apartment could take months, partially because the person who needed the service was having a hard time doing things that, previously, the government had not allowed them the opportunity to do. People were thrown into basic living with freedoms that they had never had in their lives, and there was a lot of unlearning - and a LOT of flat-out learning - to do. The parallels with what is happening with individuals all over the world and how they are living with and using the internet are pretty clear.
Filed under: Individuality vs Collectivism, Life, The State Is Not Your Friend

Great minds, eh?
I find it most obvious in my attitude towards television. More often than not I find the demand to be passive too much. Whereas in the past I might have been willing to concentrate, now I think: “What’s the point?”
Snap. I’ve had so many boyfriends and family members give me a hard time or outright refuse to watch TV with me because I switch channels too much and it drives them crazy. Thing is, I can tell within half a second whether or not something is of interest of me, so it’s pointless to pause and pretend otherwise. I don’t know for sure if this is a result of my online, never-less-than-eight-windows-open habits, but I’d bet it is.
Was Adriana born in Romania or Hungary or ?
Adriana was born in what was then Czechoslovakia and is now the Slovak Republic, but she’s been a proud Londoner for years.