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	<title>Jackie Danicki</title>
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	<description>Letting go of outcomes</description>
	<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 19:22:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Twitter for beginners</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 19:22:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[This is great, concise advice: 
Just say something you mean, and enjoy the short thoughts, inspirations and mundane details of the people you decide to follow- searching for bloggers and writers you enjoy reading in a bigger format is the way to start. Follow people saying real stuff, not the ones who are just advertising.
How [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.themadhousewife.com/?p=1592">This</a> is great, concise advice: </p>
<blockquote><p>Just say something you mean, and enjoy the short thoughts, inspirations and mundane details of the people you decide to follow- searching for bloggers and writers you enjoy reading in a bigger format is the way to start. Follow people saying real stuff, not the ones who are just advertising.</p></blockquote>
<p>How do you find those people? Look for the Twitter widget in the sidebar of their blogs, or go to <a href="http://twitter.com">twitter.com</a> and search for people. (Everyone from <a href="http://twitter.com/JimJCramer">Jim &#8220;Mad Money&#8221; Cramer</a> to <a href="http://twitter.com/HenryRollins">Henry Rollins</a> and <a href="http://twitter.com/mchammer">MC Hammer</a> is twittering.) Even better, join and follow some people you already know, and let them lead you to other <a href="http://twitter.com/newmediajim">interesting people</a> - just as with this sort of blogging, really. </p>
<p>And, just as with this sort of blogging, you can also lurk and never say a thing yourself. But you&#8217;ll get much more out of it if you do.</p>
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		<title>Work/life balance quote of the day</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 21:08:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[If you treat work and life as mutually exclusive things, then you should not be surprised to have a work-life balance problem.
-JP Rangaswami says all that and more worth reading in a cracking post.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>If you treat work and life as mutually exclusive things, then you should not be surprised to have a work-life balance problem.</p></blockquote>
<p>-<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ConfusedOfCalcutta/~3/286884762/">JP Rangaswami</a> says all that and more worth reading in a <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ConfusedOfCalcutta/~3/286884762/">cracking post</a>.</p>
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		<title>Mother&#8217;s Day quote of the day</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 19:56:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[From one of the most hard-working, impressive moms I know, Alice Bachini-Smith:

You can’t really enjoy anything with kids unless the kids are enjoying it first&#8230;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From one of the most hard-working, impressive moms I know, <a href="http://www.themadhousewife.com/?p=1590">Alice Bachini-Smith</a>:</p>
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You can’t really enjoy anything with kids unless the kids are enjoying it first&#8230;</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Tweet of the day</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 19:49:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Thinking I might sell tickets for an event about memes with the Youtube guys as speakers. But when people arrive it&#8217;s a Rick Astley gig.
-@paulcarr (aka Paul Carr, the British author and journalist and Robbie Williams doppelganger)
NB I don&#8217;t see how one could be reading blogs and not understand this tweet, but just in case, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Thinking I might sell tickets for an event about memes with the Youtube guys as speakers. But when people arrive it&#8217;s a Rick Astley gig.</p></blockquote>
<p>-@<a href="http://twitter.com/paulcarr/statuses/808522827">paulcarr</a> (aka <a href="http://www.alljustwords.com/">Paul Carr</a>, the British author and journalist and <a href="http://twitter.com/account/profile_image/paulcarr">Robbie Williams doppelganger</a>)</p>
<p>NB I don&#8217;t see how one could be reading blogs and not understand this tweet, but just in case, read about <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rickroll">Rickrolling</a>.</p>
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		<title>Platonic, schmlatonic</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 19:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I laughed and smiled my way through this entire post from Ask the Harvard MBA, on whether or not it&#8217;s possible for men and women to have strictly platonic friendships. The short answer, from my shrink, is: No, because it would be counter-evolutionary; the tension is there even if neither party is conscious of it. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I laughed and smiled my way through this entire post from <a href="http://asktheharvardmba.com">Ask the Harvard MBA</a>, on whether or not it&#8217;s possible for men and women to have strictly <a href="http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/05/10/can-a-single-man-and-a-single-woman-be-friends-without-sexual-tension-arising/">platonic friendships</a>. The short answer, from my shrink, is: No, because it would be counter-evolutionary; the tension is there even if neither party is conscious of it. The longer, funnier answer is <a href="http://www.asktheharvardmba.com/2008/05/10/can-a-single-man-and-a-single-woman-be-friends-without-sexual-tension-arising/">here</a>. Though Chris does have a short answer as well:</p>
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A single man and a single woman can definitely be friends without sexual tension, as long as at least one of them is gay or hideously unattractive.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Jay Rayner on Gordon Ramsay</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 07:27:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Man, this whole blog post from the Guardian&#8217;s food critic is critical gold. He&#8217;s got Ramsay bang to rights on several fronts. A snippet:

The last country which attempted to legislate over what its population ate was the Soviet Union. It introduced a state cook book and anybody who, like me, has had the misfortune to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Man, this whole <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2008/may/11/food.ethicalliving">blog post from the <em>Guardian</em>&#8217;s food critic</a> is critical gold. He&#8217;s got Ramsay bang to rights on several fronts. A snippet:</p>
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The last country which attempted to legislate over what its population ate was the Soviet Union. It introduced a state cook book and anybody who, like me, has had the misfortune to eat in Moscow recently will know exactly what lasting damage that did to the progress of gastronomy. You can have whatever you like there as long as it&#8217;s a dumpling or a pickled cucumber.</p></blockquote>
<p>That&#8217;s one of Rayner&#8217;s more charitable paragraphs. Good on &#8216;im.</p>
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		<title>My first California hike</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 03:59:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Bay Area Hiker says of Purisima Creek Redwoods, which is on the western slopes of the Santa Cruz Mountains with views of the Pacific Ocean:
High points: Great views and hiking&#8230;
Low points: [T]here is considerable elevation to regain on the hike back to the trailhead.
I can confirm the hell out of that!
What a way to spend [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.bahiker.com/southbayhikes/purisima.html">Bay Area Hiker</a> says of <a href="http://www.openspace.org/preserves/pr_purisima.asp">Purisima Creek Redwoods</a>, which is on the western slopes of the Santa Cruz Mountains with views of the Pacific Ocean:</p>
<blockquote><p>High points: Great views and hiking&#8230;</p>
<p>Low points: <strong>[T]here is considerable elevation to regain on the hike back to the trailhead.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>I can confirm the hell out of that!</p>
<p>What a way to spend a Saturday. All told, my friend J and I hiked for almost five hours - most of that uphill. The good news is, it makes a five mile jog seem like a cakewalk. The bad news is&#8230;we hiked for almost five hours - most of that uphill. Still, good thing my current digs here come with a hot tub, because some pre-emptive soaking was most definitely in order when I got home. </p>
<p>Hey, at least we didn&#8217;t get <a href="http://qik.com/video/75765">attacked by mountain lions</a>!</p>
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		<title>Tweet of the day</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 03:17:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[at Target today and the woman behind the counter tells me to, &#8220;have a good day, tomorrow&#8221;. What happened to today?
-@wigglesmciggles (aka Bonnie Sheehan, one of the smartest, most fun people I&#8217;ve met in the last month)
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>at Target today and the woman behind the counter tells me to, &#8220;have a good day, tomorrow&#8221;. What happened to today?</p></blockquote>
<p>-@<a href="http://twitter.com/wigglesmciggles/statuses/808368019">wigglesmciggles</a> (aka Bonnie Sheehan, one of the smartest, most fun people I&#8217;ve met in the last month)</p>
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		<title>On Gordon Ramsay and the jackboot of the law</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 04:38:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The man has truly disappointed me by stating that serving out of season vegetables should be illegal (seriously). Perry de Havilland doesn&#8217;t put too fine a point on it:

I like the idea of third world farmers pulling themselves out of poverty and selling me their products whenever I want to buy them&#8230;[W]hy should a loud [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The man has truly disappointed me by stating that <a href="http://www.samizdata.net/blog/archives/2008/05/gordon_ramsay_j.html">serving out of season vegetables should be illegal</a> (seriously). Perry de Havilland doesn&#8217;t put too fine a point on it:</p>
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I like the idea of third world farmers pulling themselves out of poverty and selling me their products whenever I want to buy them&#8230;[W]hy should a loud mouthed self important chef and a bunch of fascistic green activists get to have a say in that? Their craving to impose their will on others should stop being socially acceptable and they need to be called authoritarian thugs to their faces.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Baby Mama: B-</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 04:27:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jackie Danicki</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve just finished a somewhat hellish three weeks of non-stop, hassle-loaded work and work-related social stuff. Apart from sleeping more than two hours per night, I plan to celebrate this weekend (and this weekend only) by doing things like getting away from the computer for at least one waking hour per day.
So when a friend [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.jackiedanicki.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/tinafey-225x300.jpg" alt="tina fey" title="tina fey" width="225" height="300" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2709" />I&#8217;ve just finished a somewhat hellish three weeks of non-stop, hassle-loaded work and work-related social stuff. Apart from sleeping more than two hours per night, I plan to celebrate this weekend (and this weekend only) by doing things like getting away from the computer for at least one waking hour per day.</p>
<p>So when a friend suggested that a few of us catch a Friday afternoon matinée, it sounded like a great idea to me. She wanted to see <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0871426/"><em>Baby Mama</em></a>, for which I had low expectations. Still, better than being dragged to something gross like <em>Speed Racer</em>. </p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t love <em>Baby Mama</em>, but I did enjoy it. Tina Fey looked beautiful in every shot, and her clothes were to die for. I spent much of the film pondering the absolute perfection of her hair. I know that&#8217;s not why you go see a movie, but that alone made it worth the $7.50 for me. (Don&#8217;t ask me why she looks so much like Mariska Hargitay in the photo here.)</p>
<p>Bonus: The movie was kind of funny, too. I laughed out loud quite a lot, but it didn&#8217;t exactly slay me. Good enough for me. Steve Martin nailed his part. Oh, and I almost cried at the end. The three female friends who were with me almost administered a severe beating when I told them that. Ballbreakers!</p>
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